Talking about your choice in the Donor Register
Why is it important to talk about your choice in the Donor Register? And how do you have that conversation? Read more about it here.
Once you have registered your choice in the Donor Register, doctors and your family will know your views on organ and tissue donation when you pass away. That is reassuring, because clarity brings peace of mind in an already sad situation. Still, it is a good idea to discuss your choice beforehand with the people who matter to you.
Why talk about your choice?
If your loved ones have no idea what your views on organ and tissue donation were, they might be taken aback by your choice. For example, if they did not know you had designated them to decide whether or not you become an organ donor. This causes extra grief and stress during a time already filled with difficult moments.
Tips for a good conversation
Some people find donation and the choice in the Donor Register difficult topics to discuss at home. We don't tend to talk about it easily with our friends and family. Fortunately, it doesn't have to be a heavy or difficult conversation at all. Perhaps these tips can help you:
- Choose a quiet moment
- Explain why you feel it is important to talk about your choice
- Make space for feelings that arise